Hey thanx for stopping by,
So, you know that moment when life throws a curveball your way? Well, I've been there too, and I completely get it. If you're reading this, chances are you're dealing with the painful aftermath of infidelity. I’d like to share my journey and the insights I've gathered along the way, because believe me, you're not alone even though most of us think we are.
First things first—let's talk about healing. I know, easier said than done, right? We often think it's our partner's job to fix things, but here's the secret: your healing starts with you. It's not about blaming or expecting them to magically make it all better. It's about taking ownership of your emotions and figuring out what you need to move forward, on your terms.
Now, for those who've been on both sides of the fence. If you've ever found yourself on the "I messed up" side, really hear me. Accountability is the name of the game. Yeah, it's tough to own up to your ish, but trust me, it's a game-changer. You've got to dig deep, acknowledge the pain you caused, and understand why you did what you did. No excuses, just raw honesty.
But here's the kicker—you both need to create a safe space for these conversations. Remember the old saying, "communication is key"? Well, it's not just about talking; it's about truly listening. Imagine having a chat where you're not afraid to open up, share your feelings, and even admit you don't have all the answers. It's about being there for each other, no judgment, just love and understanding.
Let me tell you about my own journey. I was in a relationship where trust was shattered, and I didn't handle it the way I should have. Yeah, I expressed my pain, but I didn't take the time to find real solutions. I walked away from that chapter, which was a good move for my self-respect, but I didn't truly heal. It took some soul-searching and learning these very lessons to become the coach and partner I am today.
So, let me say, whether you're hurting, wanting to make things right, or just trying to find some peace, remember this journey is yours to embrace. It's about opening up, understanding, and yes, healing together. You've got the power to build a stronger foundation, and I'm here to guide you every step of the way.
Sending you love and strength,
Your guy Coach Los 💪🏾